Showing posts with label Jeanette Alongi. Show all posts
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Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Leadership Through Love - Chapter 4 - "Train and Let Loose" (Steve Martin)

Chapter 4

Train and Let Loose

A.    It Is Who You Know
B.     Hire To Complement Your Strengths
- where, not if, you are weak, then let them be strong
     C.  Outsource as needed

People come and people go. So much of the USA is on the move, shifting here and there. No wonder residential real estate firms continue to do well most of the time, as people change jobs, and often need to re-locate within cities, or to other cities.

When my father, Louis Martin, retired from the Viking Pump Company, he had been there for over 30 years. When our family lived at 1116 Main Street in Cedar Falls, Iowa, I had been in that same home from 1st grade until my first (and only) year in college. My wife’s parents lived in the same house for 48 years, in Peru, Illinois. (As of June 2013, Laurie’s Mom, Lorraine Unzicker, has now lived there 54 years...and counting.)

Lorraine Unzicker (front left) - Laurie's Mom 
Photo taken at Billy Graham Library in Charlotte, NC
- 2010

It is more common these days for people to move from house to house, city to city, state to state, as jobs change, due to transitions with companies themselves, and with the employees.  How do leaders and administrators find good people to meet the business, church or ministry needs, as they themselves grow, or fluctuate with life around them?

Often it is said that it is not “what you know but who you know.” And I would agree, based on my understanding of relationships, and the years of experience which has proved this to be so in my hiring selections.

Personality tests abound, resumes are plentiful, but I have yet to be convinced that what is “tested” in a twenty minute survey or written by a potential candidate in a resume’ is as trustworthy as knowing people themselves. And how do you get to know people that can do what you need done on the job?

The Holy Spirit is my guide. He has promised to lead me and direct my steps. I believe that holds true when it comes time for an administrator or human services director to make the changes necessary within the staffing positions. Out of relationships within the church, or through networking with other ministries and businesses, we can get to know people who have the skills required, or can be trained to do the tasks needed.

My first goal as the one doing the hiring is to know the person’s character, which weighs more heavily in my book than even their skill level. If I see someone who is trustworthy, diligent, having a servant’s heart and attitude, and teachable, then I am far better ahead bringing them on staff, than going out and selecting someone who I have no history of involvement with. I have found that selecting someone with the character within, who has the willingness and the spirit to be taught that which they may not know as yet, will better serve the organization, and will learn the tasks that the work requires.

One who “knows it all” brings a pride and attitude with them that has proven detrimental when placed on your team in the workplace. Those not willing to cooperate, receive instructions, and “hear and obey” your leadership will only bring trouble down the road. Careful observance beforehand will save a lot of headache later.

Once a new employee is trained sufficiently to do the regular routines, let them have enough space to create better ways of doing them. Freedom to grow, by not being controlled by the boss, will cause the employee to “make it their own”, or “take ownership” as my good friend Jack Alongi so often said, at Derek Prince Ministries.

Jack Alongi (3rd from the right)

Included in the photo are the 
Love For His People, Inc. Board Members (2010)
(L-R) Curtis Loftin (seated), Cathy Hargett, 
Jeanette Alongi, Dr. Bill & Cindi Duerfeldt, Jack Alongi
Laurie and Steve Martin


We had one employee, a young man with no leadership skills initially, that came to work before my time at one ministry. He started out in the shipping department, doing the mail runs, filling book and cassette orders, and basically doing what he was told to do. At times though he had disagreements with his supervisor, and on one occasion, after she and I concurred on what to do, we gave him a day off with no pay, over an incident that required noticeable action. This drove home our point.

As the years went by, his supervisor, Liz Spooner, (another employee who had worked 25 years on the job!) retired, and because he had put himself “under the rule” to be taught, we gave him the staff position of being the Shipping Supervisor. Today, he has his own web design business, and has grown into a very fine man. His character allowed him to mature, and his teachable spirit gave him the means to learn the job, and become that which his mentors had taught him over the years.

The Lord has given each of us gifts. Encouraging your staff to take something, and expand it, brings fulfillment to them, and will “profit” the organization more. Controlling every situation, such as micro-managers do, only stifles the atmosphere and the office members.

Once certain boundaries have been put in place, for the Lord is a God of order and not chaos, then let the staff member operate out of his or her ability to think, respond, and implement new ideas and ways to complete the task. Even accounting, which I myself learned on the job, has standard operating procedures, but there is always more than one way “to skin a cat.”

Boredom caused by mundane routine produces wasted man hours. Let the people have some freedom in their positions, and offer new ideas for consideration. Reward them when new their ideas are put into practice.

Another practice I have found very beneficial in my hiring methods is to look for people who can do those tasks I either cannot do, nor have the time to do. As the leader of the group, you need to have those surrounding you who can complement the team. Face it, you don’t have all the answers, nor do you have the time to learn all the answers. But by adding people who are more skilled in areas you are not, and don’t even have knowledge about, you make the team stronger, which results in more production.

If someone shows a talent for organizing the office supply cabinet, then give them another task that requires even more arrangement of pieces and product. If someone shows a delight in sharing with visitors who come to see the structure of the organization, then make them the “tour guide” for those times.

On the lighter side of the job, as I expressed in a previous chapter, have times to celebrate with the staff a birthday or the completion of a big event, such as a weekend conference. The guy who enjoys cookouts at home can be the “grill master” for the company, and use this joy of cooking to express himself in this manner, while blessing the others.

There are certain jobs that you may not have the skilled personnel or equipment to do what is needed. At these points, outsource to those businesses which are available for such needs.  And even as you are doing this, your church or ministry becomes even more known within the community. Scripture speaks of the elder having a good reputation outside the church. Even the leader should be spoken highly of in this manner, as he conducts business with those helping him fulfill his tasks for the work.

If a job is one that is only needed for one time, or occasionally, then outsourcing, rather than getting someone trained, is worth the money. Or if the equipment costs prohibit the job from being done internally, then look for a good, reputable company that does this work, and contract the job with them. Employee costs are not only spent for salary, but also insurances, vacations and other benefits. It pays to consider both of these options – hiring or outsourcing.

Bottom line, relationships tend to allow the leader the better choice in finding and keeping good staff members. Allowing staff members to grow in their positions, without the micro-manager dictating each task and oversight of it, and outsourcing when needed brings a profitable staff climate in the office.

Shalom!

Steve Martin
Founder/President
Love For His People, Inc.


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Note: To read the Intro, Chapter Listings and first two chapters please use the Search Box in the top right hand corner of this Blog, and enter "Leadership Through Love." Be blessed in your reading!


Leadership Through Love

Chapter Listings


1.      A Gift for His Purposes

- The Early Years
- On the job training

2.      Use the Tools You Have, But Not the Staff

- Treasure the people, while digging the foundations
- Do unto them as you would…
- Bless and curse not: honor those who serve with you

3.      Right Man (or Woman!) for the Job

- All are created equal – make the most of this!
- If the Shoe Fits, Have Them Wear It

4.      Train and Let Loose

- It IS Who You Know and Are Known By
- Hire To Complement Your Strengths
- if you are weak, then they are strong
- Outsource as needed

5.      Burn Candles At Both Ends? – NOT!

- Rest and Sabbath Days
- Mornings with the Lord
- Trust in Him at all times
- We all are given 24 hours each day


6.       The Visionaries Need You!

-          They dream it - you make it happen
-          It takes a team
-          Head Won’t Get Far without the Neck
(or heads will roll)
  
7.      Field Trips and More!

- Staff Retreats
- Party Time!
- Birthdays and BBQs
- After Hours

8.      It Doesn’t All Depend On You

- The Lord is the Rock – Not You
- Whose strength  - yours or His?
   - Key Staff to Lean On
    - Trustworthy managers and assistants

9.      Practically Speaking…and Walking

- Handle each piece of paper once
- File so you can find it!
- Early morning – before the others come
- Take a Break

10.  Meetings – Time-manger or Time-waster?

- Do you really need all those meetings?
- Group or One-On-One?
- Why Morning and Mid-Week?
 - Prov. 24:6 “By wise counsel…multitude of counselors

11.  Acknowledge Him in All Your Ways

- Heart of Thankfulness
- Heart of Worship
- Heart of Service

12.  Another Man’s Vineyard

-          Follow & help fulfill their vision
-          Faithful with another’s
-          Learn and growth until your time
-          The proper way of moving on

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Leadership Through Love - Chapter 3 - "Right Man (or Woman!) for the Job" (Steve Martin)

Leadership Through Love
(by Steve Martin)

Chapter 3

Right Man (or Woman!) for the Job


A.    All are created equal – make the most of it!
B.     If the Shoe Fits, Have Them Wear It


In today’s business and ministry world, women have entered the work force in record numbers. Many have been forced to, often simply in order to support the children that, as single mothers, they are now solely caring for. (Another book could be written on this alone, and “What Happened To The Men!”)

With the Lord having created as many women as men, it should not be a major dilemma or concern in our businesses or ministries to employ women that carry the gifts, the heart, and the ability to perform the office jobs that need to be performed, so necessary on business, church and ministry staffs. After all, they certainly are available and willing!

There are certain positions that a leader and an administrator needs to fill within his team, that are more suited to having women in place. Phone receptionists, word and data processors, bookkeepers, and sales clerks so often are best found in the female segment of society. But I have learned that these are not the only responsible, traditional positions that they perform well in.

Women directors and supervisors can effectively steer those in her charge, with skill, attitude, and favor. And when they do, they need to be paid with the same benefits that a man would be, if having that same authority and responsibility.

While employed as the Director of Operations and Finance at Derek Prince Ministries, we had two women supervisors, Jeanette Alongi, Communications Supervisor, and Gina Stasko, Customer Service Supervisor. When they spoke at our weekly mangers team meetings, I carried full respect for their input, wisdom, and knowledge on the job, and for those who were in their departments, whether men or women.

Derek Prince Ministries staff - 2003
Front row  (L-R): Pat Vitolo, Vicki DeVito, David & Anna Selby, 
Jeannette  & Jack Alongi, Jenna, Indira Persad
Second row (L-R): Peter Wyns, Norma McDonald, Deborah Shokes, Terri Whitaker,
Charlotte Mytrysak, Christi Selby, Gina Stasko, Christine Alongi,
Jenny Maret, James DeVito
Third row (L-R): Steve Martin, Tess Hughes, Chris Selby, Glenn Selby, Ben Martin, Nicole S.

Both Jeanette (who had more than 24 years with the ministry at the time of her retirement) and Gina (it may be  now almost 30 years, at the time of this writing in 2013) on many occasions gave thought provoking opinions, great suggestions and encouraging support that enabled the ministry to advance forward.

Another woman that I held high regard for, having much godly character, and whom I admired with deep respect and honor, was the Finance Supervisor and personal secretary of Derek Prince, Dorothy Schulte. It was Dorothy who spent the time training me, when I first came on staff with Derek Prince Ministries in 1987 to replace her, as she was coming to the end of her faithful years of dedicated service, before her retirement year in 1988.

Dorothy would hold me to strict accounting practices, to the very penny when balancing the books, and would not let me “cut corners” to save time, at any time. Her commitment and loyalty to her work certainly helped give the ministry the credibility that it has long held, in part to her supervision, and which I strove to carry on in my tenure. She was indeed the “woman for the job.”

As I looked to fill positions, both due to expansion and turnover, I regularly interviewed men, and women, whom I would then select to be the one for that needed addition. And as it was in my authority, I worked to pay them the same for the work performed, whether they were a man or a woman performing that work. In my eyes, as I looked to the Lord, each are created equally, and are to be treated equally. 

If the shoe fits, let the woman wear it!

As a result of having several leadership positions with businesses and ministries, in the administrator and higher management roles, I have gained the respect of other leaders, in other businesses and ministries, who have come to value my opinion and input. Thus, when it was asked of me who I would recommend for a leading ministry position for a work located in Jerusalem, it did not take me long to put forward the name of Hannele Pardain, who at the time of this writing continues to be the Christian Friends of Israel USA Director (CFI-USA). Hannele has led this ministry very much so with her diligence, long hours and heart for the people and land of Israel. I wholeheartedly recommended her for this vital leadership position that was needed to be filled at that time.

Christian Friends of Israel - Jerusalem office (2004)
(L-R) Hannele Pardain, Ray Sanders, Steve Martin


Women in leadership can have a more nurturing heart than can sometimes be typically found in men. (And sometimes not!) They may not be as quick to reprimand someone in their department, realizing more of the factors involved in the decision having to be made. I have found that they are more long suffering, when it comes to choosing the course that would take more patience, than the one a man in that position would take. Often it turns out to be the right course, as more details are later known in the given situation. It must be the “mother instinct” that always believes that her child is good!

On several occasions I had been told that I am too “black and white” in my memo and
e-mail communications. One of the best administrative assistants that I have ever had, Charlotte, during my time with DPM, would often encourage me to use “more honey” in my expressions, both in writing memos and speaking to staff. 

I tended to want to get to the point, tell it like it is (as I see it) and get the matter settled. Her important input was to let me know that this can still be done, but with a little less “pepper” and “more honey” in my approach. The results proved that this was an accurate observation in my leading. Again, the woman’s touch and discernment can be most beneficial.

When I left Vision for Israel in June of 2010, to start Love For His People, I had already recommended to Barry and Batya Segal, Co-Founders, that Deborah Shokes take my place. She had worked with me at both All Nations Church/Mahesh Chavda Ministries and Derek Prince Ministries for several years preceeding.

Vision for Israel staff - Charlotte, NC 2007
(L-R) Steve Martin, Krista Stewart, Kevin Grafton, 
Indira Persad (front), Deborah Shokes, Timmy Bryant


When I hired her in 2003 for the Donor Support head position at VFI, I had already known of her faithful dedication, love for the tasks, skills in performing all her duties, and the great experience in getting the job done. She served faithfully then, and still does today!

May the Lord continue to give us more women who have the time, the heart, the skills, and the attitude to take their place in His work. As in the natural, so may it also be in the spiritual realm, as the Church realizes that more and more in these last days.

Shalom!

Steve Martin
Love For His People


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E-mail: loveforhispeople@gmail.com martinlighthouse@gmail.com

Facebook pages: Steve Martin  and  Love For His People       

Twitter: martinlighthous, LovingHisPeople and ahavaloveletter 

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Love For His People, Inc. is a charitable, not-for-profit USA organization. Fed. ID#27-1633858.  Tax deductible contributions receive a receipt for each donation.



Note: To read the Intro, Chapter Listings and first two chapters please use the Search Box in the top right hand corner of this Blog, and enter "Leadership Through Love." Be blessed in your reading!

Leadership Through Love

Chapter Listings


1.      A Gift for His Purposes

- The Early Years
- On the job training

2.      Use the Tools You Have, But Not the Staff

- Treasure the people, while digging the foundations
- Do unto them as you would…
- Bless and curse not: honor those who serve with you

3.      Right Man (or Woman!) for the Job

- All are created equal – make the most of this!
- If the Shoe Fits, Have Them Wear It

4.      Train and Let Loose

- It IS Who You Know and Are Known By
- Hire To Complement Your Strengths
- if you are weak, then they are strong
- Outsource as needed

5.      Burn Candles At Both Ends? – NOT!

- Rest and Sabbath Days
- Mornings with the Lord
- Trust in Him at all times
- We all are given 24 hours each day


6.       The Visionaries Need You!

-          They dream it - you make it happen
-          It takes a team
-          Head Won’t Get Far without the Neck
(or heads will roll)
  
7.      Field Trips and More!

- Staff Retreats
- Party Time!
- Birthdays and BBQs
- After Hours

8.      It Doesn’t All Depend On You

- The Lord is the Rock – Not You
- Whose strength  - yours or His?
   - Key Staff to Lean On
    - Trustworthy managers and assistants

9.      Practically Speaking…and Walking

- Handle each piece of paper once
- File so you can find it!
- Early morning – before the others come
- Take a Break

10.  Meetings – Time-manger or Time-waster?

- Do you really need all those meetings?
- Group or One-On-One?
- Why Morning and Mid-Week?
 - Prov. 24:6 “By wise counsel…multitude of counselors

11.  Acknowledge Him in All Your Ways

- Heart of Thankfulness
- Heart of Worship
- Heart of Service

12.  Another Man’s Vineyard

-          Follow & help fulfill their vision
-          Faithful with another’s
-          Learn and growth until your time
-          The proper way of moving on