10 Reasons Millennials Are Sick of Church - JARRID WILSON CHARISMA MAGAZINE

Millennials don't need a lot of frills in a church service. They simply want authenticity. (iStock photo )

10 Reasons Millennials Are Sick of Church

11/24/2015 JARRID WILSON  charisma magazine

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There are literally thousands of articles online about why the millennial generation is disillusioned with church, church culture and church politics. And while I applaud the attempt to wrap one's head around the issue, I've noticed that most of the articles seem to be written by people who know nothing about the millennial generation. Weird.

I've talked with thousands of young people over the years who have told me, "I'm just sick of church." I've heard everything under the sun when it comes to one's reasoning for leaving, and I believe many of them carry a lot of heavy truth. Here are some of them ...

1. "It's not authentic."

2. "It's too corporate." 

3. "I don't like the political side."

4. "I feel like I can't be open about my struggles."

5. "I hate the cliques."

6. "It's too judgmental." 

7. "Their attempt at being relevant comes off as cheesy."

8. "They don't spend enough time outside of their building."

9. "They aren't really welcoming of people who are different from them." 

10. "They focus too much on what they know instead of whom they are showing love to."

And while I believe not all churches deal with the complaints I mentioned above, it's safe to say there are many who probably do. That's why I'm writing this. This needs to be discussed.

Authenticity Is Key

If churches want to see more millennials walk through their doors, they need to stop trying to entice them with free stuff, and instead allow their spaces to be filled with authentic relationships and transparent conversations. The Acts 2 church was a perfect example of this.

"They continued steadfastly in the apostles' teaching and fellowship, in the breaking of bread and in the prayers. Fear came to every soul. And many wonders and signs were done through the apostles. All who believed were together and had all things in common. They sold their property and goods and distributed them to all, according to their need. And continuing daily with one mind in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, they ate their food with gladness and simplicity of heart" (Acts 2:42-46).

Some people say there is a decline in millennial church attendance, while others say they don't see much of a change at all. We must realize that just because millennials aren't showing up to church buildings doesn't mean they aren't part of a thriving community of believers, or are without a biblical relationship with God.

Millennials aren't looking for brighter lights. Millennials aren't looking for more free coffee. They want Jesus-founded authenticity, a safe-place to share burdens, real answers to real questions and a community of action. 

Jarrid Wilson is a husband to Juli, dad to Finch, pastor, author, blogger, founder of Cause Roast. He's helping people live a better story. For the original article, visitjarridwilson.com.

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Amazing Love: Authentic Movie Making in Israel

Amazing Love: Authentic Movie 

Making in Israel

CBN News, Chris Mitchell

NAZARETH VILLAGE, Israel -- You might not realize it, but most movies about the Bible are not made in the Holy Land, something that just may be changing.

The feature film, "Amazing Love," is a retelling of the Prophet Hosea and his unfaithful wife, Gomer. It begins with a modern-day dilemma, when a youth pastor, played by Sean Astin, deals with a young girl consumed with herself.

In one scene, one girl says to another, "Hey Ashley, we're only going to be here for the weekend. Do you need all that luggage?"

To which she responds, "I couldn't decide what to wear."

"Amazing Love" is being shot in the center of the modern-day city of Nazareth and in a recreation of what Nazareth would have looked like 2,000 years ago, Nazareth Village.

The film's producer, Daryl Lefever, told CBN News he's taken with the authenticity of the sets.

"Shooting here in the Village? The sets speak for themselves -- the facility to be able to shoot real stones and real mud. Things are built together by hand and hewn out of rock by guys with chisels, whom we meet," Lefever said. "Nothing here is not authentic. Everything is made here the same way it would have been 2,000 years ago."

Director Kevin Downes, who starred in the movie "Courageous," said he started to dream the first time he came to Israel.

Director Kevin Downes

"So as a filmmaker, my mind started to spin and I started thinking, 'Man, could you shoot a movie here? Could you make a story here? Because it would be so impactful," he recalled.

Now Downes has discovered the joy of making a movie in Israel, the land where Jesus walked.

"So actually it was my life's passion, so when we shot our first shot, which was last week on the Sea of Galilee, it was 6:48 a.m. I remember the time," he said.

"And I sat there and a tear came down my cheek because I felt like it was a dream come true from like 19 years that I've been doing this. I'm now filming a movie right where Jesus walked -- right in God's Holy Land," he said.

Gary Bayer said filming here in Israel is "life changing."

"You know the one line that just keeps coming to mind, the word I've heard over and over is 'life changing,'" he told CBN News.

Downes got help for the film from Gary Bayer. Bayer and his wife, Cindy, started "Writer's Gathering," an organization that brings filmmakers and storytellers to Israel, which they call the "Cradle of Creativity."

"We bring them here in hopes that they will feed that well from which they write…or they will decide, 'I'm going to bring my film here,'" he explained. "And that is actually grown to the point where writers are now bringing their films here and this is the place where we host them here."

"We scout for them," he continued. "They'll shoot either along here or in the Golan, the north shore. They'll go to Nazareth to the whole restored village of Nazareth, so it's a great place to capture [a] story."

But what about the dangers of filming in Israel?

"It's strange at first when you think about shooting in Israel because you know you read the news you think it must be high tension there or be this crazy place you wouldn't want to come to and be dealing with all this stuff. It's really not that," Lefever said. "From the moment I got off the plane, I was like, 'This is beautiful. Why didn't I come here on vacation?'"

Downes hopes to shoot another film in Israel, and he has a message for other filmmakers.

"Every filmmaker in our space has a Bible story in the back of their mind," he said. "And I'm going to encourage them, you know, pray about it and seek God's guidance to maybe bring you over here."

Watch here: Amazing Love - video on CBN News