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Sunday, July 28, 2019

"Intimacy" - Think About It. Again. - Steve Martin, Love For His People ministry



July 28, 2019

Greetings friends of Love For His People.

As the Lord gives me titles of those messages once given, to be shared again, such as this one entitled “Intimacy” from March 2015, I realize that each of us need to be reminded of that which the Lord has already done in our lives.

When the Israelites (Hebrews) crossed over the Jordan River, under the leadership of Joshua in Exodus, they were commanded to take stones from the dry river bed and make an altar on the other side, to continually be reminded of the Lord’s deliverance for them out of slavery and bondage.

As you read the following, again or for the first time, be thankful for that which the Lord has also given you from your history, to share with the next generation and those who would follow. Our testimonies and lives laid down are to be examples of what the Lord has already done, thus giving us faith and courage for that which He yet plans to do with us, and them.

Think about it. Again. Or for the first time.

Ahava and shalom,

Steve Martin
Founder
Love For His People ministry
Charlotte, North Carolina USA

Intimacy
- Now Think On This
by Steve Martin


“My beloved responded and said to me,
' Arise, my darling, my beautiful one,
And come along.
'For behold, the winter is past,
The rain is over and gone.
'The flowers have already appeared in the land;
The time has arrived for pruning the vines,
And the voice of the turtledove has been heard in our land.
'The fig tree has ripened its figs,
And the vines in blossom have given forth their fragrance.
Arise, my darling, my beautiful one,
And come along!'"

Song of Songs 2:10-13 NASU)


As my bride came down the church aisle that beautiful early evening, I sang these Scriptural words to her that I had written in my song, “Arise, my darling, my beautiful one, and come along.” Though I had intended to sing several verses, I choked up on the second one. My heart was just overwhelmed at her beauty, her movement in that flowing white lace gown, and the presence of the Lord’s Holy Spirit in that place of matrimony. The time had come for us to be joined together as man and wife.

Our parents standing with us on Oct. 8, 1977, in Peru, Illinois

What seemed to have been a decade long wait was about to be fulfilled at that moment, as we were acknowledging the Lord’s plans and purposes for unity. Out of our desire to share the love in our hearts, He would also bring forth a family to demonstrate His love on the earth, in preparation for the eternal love in heaven.

From that day forward, we have grown in our care and provision for each other, sharing the gifts and spiritual fruit we each have had to give. In physical, emotional and spiritual intimate moments, we have experienced a touch of what the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit have shared for all eternity. Believing that through the times of trials and required persistence, our hearts have been bonded together, the intimacy becoming more real in our lives together.

Being intimate with one other is not an “overnight sensation” that one can have with another simply out of a physical act. To participate in the intent of the Father’s love for mankind, there must be that commitment to be joined together for the long haul; to stand strong when the temptation is to flee; to keep the promise that was spoken at the altar years before. Intimacy is not for those who are looking for quick satisfaction of one’s emotional lust, but is given to committed hearts who have been and continue to be willing to sacrifice for each other, time and time again. From that solid promise to stay through sickness and health, riches or poverty, until death do we part, the intimate moments are fully experienced, fulfilling the longing in each heart to be accepted, nourished and kept in committed and submitted love.

In today’s society, there is the prevailing belief that there can be emotional intimacy without having a strong commitment to one another beyond a sexual act. When the Lord says that sex outside of marriage is wrong, it is because the Creator knows that a deep soulish tie will occur, bringing hurt and lasting pain when an improper joining happens. We were not created to share this intimate act in a non-binding relationship.

The emotional and physical act also carries with it a spiritual bond that has to be kept within the protected walls of marriage. Thus doing that which was intended only within the committed relationship of sacred marriage will produce an emotional scar, keeping us from experiencing real love. It will also leave a strong imprint that will need to be healed later. Our loving Father thus has warned over and over again that sexual intimacy is for the marriage bed only.

Laws are made to protect us, not to keep us from the Lord’s goodness and favor. Abiding in His laws of love and protection will bring eternal satisfaction, keeping our hearts pure and emotions strong. Breaking His loving laws will produce destruction in our spirit, soul, and body.

Intimacy between a man and a woman is a beautiful gift from God. Keeping it that way is a protection for our society and the good of all mankind.

Now think on this,

Steve Martin
Founder
Love For His People. Inc.

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Now Think On This #169 “Intimacy” by Steve Martin 
Date: In the year of our Lord 2015 (03.29.15) Sunday at 12:30 pm in Charlotte, NC

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Saturday, June 16, 2018

'The Incredibles 2' Continues to Celebrate This Cultural Phenomenon - TESS FARRAND/MOVIEGUIDE

A scene from "The Incredibles 2" (Disney•Pixar/YouTube)

'The Incredibles 2' Continues to Celebrate This Cultural Phenomenon

Often, movies with the most intriguing stories have dynamic tension surrounding the family unit, especially on-screen marriages. According to Movieguide®'s 2018 Report to the Entertainment Industry, a 2015 poll from Brigham Young University in the Deseret News states that 52 percent of participants believe marriage contributes to a better society. Also, 62 percent stated that marriage is "needed to create strong families." This phenomenon may be attributed to the unity and stability that marriage provides to people who want meaning and purpose in their lives.
In the not-so-distant past, movies like The Incredibles (Brad Bird, 2004) and The Blind Side (John Lee Hancock, 2009) subscribe to just these ideals. In the last year, movies like Wonder (Stephen Chbosky, 2017) and The Greatest Showman (Michael Gracey, 2017) grossed over $134 million and $172 million, respectively, while displaying the power of a united family structure with married parents as the heads of households. The success of both these movies comes in part from the overcoming of relational obstacles that inhibit the togetherness of the family unit.
For instance, in one scene of The Greatest Showman, a female colleague of Hugh Jackman's title character kisses him, even though he's married. His refusal to compromise his family values restores the trust in his marriage and ultimately yields a pleasant ending.
Also, the family unit is extolled in The Boss Baby, the winner of the $25,000 Ware Foundation Prize for Best Movie for Families at Movieguide®'s 26th Annual Faith & Values Awards. The Boss Baby made more than $175 million in the United States and Canada. Two of the emotional highlights in that movie is when the parents sing a song to their first son, then both their sons together.
Incredibles 2, which opens this Friday, continues this cultural phenomenon of celebrating marriage and family and is expected to be a big hit as well.
As Movieguide® asserts, movies with stories promoting marriage and family provide audiences with a distinct view of how God intends for marriages to look in a broken world.
Contrary to popular belief, 71 percent of Americans disagree that marriage is old fashioned, according to Movieguide®'s 2018 Report. In fact, wedding movies like Father of the Bride (Charles Shyer, 1991), The Princess Bride (Rob Reiner, 1987) and My Big Fat Greek Wedding (Joel Zwick, 2002) have lasted for so long because audiences crave the integrity and commitment that only the institution of marriage provides.
If marriage were truly out of date, then movies such as these wouldn't be popular at the box office or on home video. Movie and television characters in healthy families with marriage at the helm allow viewers to experience a sense of relational peace, something that might not be present in their own lives. Since Christ is the bridegroom of the church, movies with healthy marriages showcase the true purpose of Christian living and provide Christian audiences with a better visual understanding of the meaning behind family connection. 

Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Christopher Wants A Baby; Catherine Wants A Cookie - Now Think On This by Steve Martin

Christopher Wants A Baby;
Catherine Wants A Cookie

Now Think On This
Steve Martin


“Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart.” 
(Psalms 37:4, NKJV)


“Christopher wants a baby; Catherine wants a cookie.”

Have you ever dreamed of such a thing? Weird, huh? But I have, and I still am not sure what exactly it means, if in only partiality. I can speculate and then draw my own conclusion – the man wants one thing while the woman in the relationship wants another. Happens all the time, right?

Really, I did dream this recently, and have been asking the Lord what it is supposed to convey. I know there are multiple times when two people may want different things, as even a man and a woman in marriage do. The one’s desire may seem lofty and admirable, while the other’s may seem trivial. Our concepts and perceptions certainly do not always agree in relationships, and yet we are called to pursue love and understanding in them.

When I consider this dream I would almost think that it is backwards – that Catherine would be the one who wants a baby, granting her a God-given desire for motherhood, while Christopher, where in today’s society considers men to be weak, babyish, selfish and egotistical, would be content with just having a cookie. His choice would not be a life-long commitment to raising a child as unto the Lord, but to have a cookie in place of it, with more selfish desires that follow. Kind of like being satisfied with getting a bowl of soup when one is hungry in exchange for giving your natural birthright away.

Sounds like Jacob and Esau.

“When Jacob had cooked stew, Esau came in from the field and he was famished; and Esau said to Jacob, "Please let me have a swallow of that red stuff there, for I am famished." Therefore his name was called Edom. But Jacob said, " First sell me your birthright." Esau said, "Behold, I am about to die; so of what use then is the birthright to me?" And Jacob said, " First swear to me"; so he swore to him, and sold his birthright to Jacob. Then Jacob gave Esau bread and lentil stew; and he ate and drank, and rose and went on his way. Thus Esau despised his birthright.” (Genesis 25:29-34, NASU)

But let’s just for a moment give this guy in the dream, Christopher, a little slack, and believe he really wants to be responsible man, raise a family, and lead both wife and child(ren) into the ways of the Lord. Let’s also give it a real possibility that there are indeed other men out there who are wanting to do the same. (I personally know of two close to me, right now, who would love to have a wife, desiring both of them to then live for the Lord in marriage. It has been a real struggle for them as they wait on the Lord, for a woman to come along who also desires this type of relationship, and not one who would just be content with having a “cookie”.)

Before our society totally loses it, when it comes to a man and woman being solidly joined together in a godly marriage, giving of each other to each other, and then bringing forth children to care for and raising up to bless the Lord and their parents, my prayer is that the “Christophers” out there, who desire to have a scared relationship, are indeed given that opportunity in finding a “Catherine” who too desires more than a “cookie”, and is willing to also lay her life down in order to realize the blessing the Lord still grants upon the union of one man and one wife, living for Him and His purposes.

My dream may not be so weird after all.

Shalom and ahava (peace and love in Hebrew).

Now think on this,
  
Steve Martin
Founder/President
Love For His People, Inc.


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Wednesday, November 29, 2017

LoveMusic! - Woman/The Man That I Love, Performed by Paul Clark and Kelly Willard

Woman/The Man That I Love
Performed by Paul Clark and Kelly Willard

Hand To The Plow, 1976

Nov. 29, 2017

Greetings LoveMusic! listeners.

Back in the day, 1976 to be exact, I met my future wife, Laura Jean Unzicker, at a Sunday evening - former Baptist, now Pentecostal type - church meeting. The town was LaSalle, Illinois. The place was Victory Church. She was 17. I was 22.

I was looking. She was praising the Lord with her high school friend. I liked what I saw, and a little over a year later we were married. Now 40 years and counting, we still are - meeting together in church and praising the Lord for the life He has given together, and to share with others.

Paul Clark never knew this when he and Kelly Willard recorded this song during that same time, but the Lord did. To this day, the album, framed and hanging on our home wall, reminds us of commitment and sharing His life together. Beautifully sung by Paul and Kelly, it is a true reminder of love between a man and a woman.

Ahava and shalom,

Steve and Laurie Martin
Love For His People
Charlotte, North Carolina
USA




Paul Clark



Kelly Willard



Woman, your worth is far above all precious jewels My heart trusts in you, I know you'll do me good all the days of my life

Woman, your hands they seem to work with delight You're like a merchant ship, Gathering goods from afar, for your own You rise before the sun To serve everyone Day after day, your hands seldom rest, You never eat the bread of idleness Woman, you are a gift to me, Grace and beauty are yours Woman, you're like a silent night, Gentle and quiet in heart Woman, you are a gift to me, Grace and beauty are yours Woman, you're like a silent night, Gentle and quiet in heart And I love you, please love me, Let us live together in Him In my heart there's a feeling That I know has come from above He gave me you for my covering, It's true that you are the man that I love Since the day that He spoke to me And showed me you were the one We've been through so many changes, But still you are the man that I love What a joy to be living, Sharing our lives together If we continue in giving, We'll share a little of heaven right here on the Earth What a joy to be living, Sharing our lives together If we continue in giving, We'll share a little of heaven right here on the Earth Woman, I love you You're the man that I love Let us live together in Him

You Tube - Published on Jun 3, 2012

This is a video I (Victoria Tribby) put together for my husband to celebrate our 28 consecutive years (without any breaks or separations) of marriage together. Woman/The Man That I Love is a song my husband specifically played a tape of for me on our first date when I was 16 and he was 17. Though his essentially proposing to me on our first date scared me half out of my gourd at the time (I guess the boy knew what he wanted, lol), I later warmed up to the idea of marrying him as a direct result of the Lord moving on my heart to do so. In fact, I warmed up to it so much that, a year later, we were married to each other; and this was our wedding song.

If anyone would like to read our whole mind-blowing love story, it can be viewed here on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notes/victor...

If anyone would like to see a picture of us back then, it can be viewed at Flickr here: http://www.flickr.com/photos/13724386...

If anyone would like to see a picture of us now, it can be viewed here on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fb...

After all was said and done, I specifically wanted to thank Paul Clark for permission to use this song and for his composing and writing and performing it all upon Jesus' direction. Also I would like to thank him for allowing us to get to know him, for spending time with us online and on the phone, for helping me make adjustments to this video and more, and--most of all--for actually taking the time out of his busy schedule to put on a mini Skypecert (a mini concert via Skype) for us, honoring my and Pete's time together since recently oddly our health has been taking a nose-dive. This whole experience has truly been a blessing to us. And I would just like to say right here that the Lord has truly been a master artist at work on this guy, creating quite a masterpiece.

Anyway, a neato little known fact people might like to know if they enjoy Paul Clark's music, and in particular this song, that he shared with us during one of our talks together is that the original singer of the female part in this song was not Kelly Willard.

To expand, after the original recording of this song was ready to go, Paul wasn't feeling very confident about the fact that the vocals simply didn't seem to mesh well together. Though the original female singer's voice was incredible in and of itself, her voice was a bit on the operatic side whereas his was more folk-rock sounding. While mulling this problem over and praying about it, out of nowhere, a bolt of lightning hit the place where he had recorded the song. It destroyed something like 10 seconds of her part. Talk about divine intervention because she was, at the time, so incredibly busy that she couldn't come in and lay down those ten seconds worth of vocals to finish the song.

Then one of the guys helping him to record the song told him about a young woman of 17--named Kelly Willard--who went to his church that was in a band, called something like Selah. He said she could belt that part right out there for Paul. So Paul had her brought in to see if she could do it. She did the part in ONE take! Unbelievable! Basically, Paul discovered Kelly Willard...though I don't think he'd ever say that, lol.

I would also like to end this description with letting all who watch it know that this is the first video I have ever worked on, so please be gentle with me, lol. It was time consuming to try to figure it out, but I do think I came up with something my husband and I and our children and grandchildren and the rest of my family and my Facebook friends may repeatedly enjoy. I first started working on this video because no one had placed a video up of it online, and I needed to be able to link to it in my story for the people listed above so that they could hear it since it is an intricate part of how my husband and I connected. Since then, others have placed their versions on youtube. I would have normally linked to one of them on my story since they did wonderful jobs on the song also. But I just didn't want all the work I did on the video to go down the drain, and I wanted my husband to feel as if this were especially made for him because he is, after all, the love of my life after Jesus, of course.

That being said, I hope everyone else watching and listening to it enjoys the song and video and is as blessed by it as I and my husband have been.

(c) 5-5-2012 Victoria Tribby
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If anyone would like to find more of Paul Clark's songs or buy this one, it can be found at paulclarkmusic.com or at itunes.
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Thursday, October 19, 2017

Lance Wallnau - Highlights From Orlando Summit 2017!

Lance Wallnau
 - Highlights From Orlando Summit 2017!
Oct. 19, 2017



Published on Oct 19, 2017


Highlights From Orlando Summit! (October 19, 2017)