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Sunday, August 3, 2025

LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR OR LOVE YOURSELF? Cathy Hargett, Highway To Zion

 


                                             LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR OR LOVE YOURSELF?

By:  Cathy Hargett
August 3, 2025


 In a world where there seems to be no lack of people loving themselves and exalting themselves, perhaps the second greatest commandment makes sense - or maybe not?  Are we supposed to love ourselves first and then our neighbor?

Here is how Yeshua answered when one of the Torah scholars asked Him which is the greatest commandment in the Torah:

“And He said to him, ‘You shall love Adonai your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment.”
(Matthew 22:37)

And then Yeshua went further and told the Torah scholar the second greatest commandment:

“And the second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself. The entire Torah and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.’ ”
(Matthew 22:38-40)

Note that Yeshua said that these two commandments are the foundation for the entire Torah. In other words, without both of them, you do not have the Torah in its completeness, in its fulfillment.

And remember this, Yeshua said He did not come to abolish Torah but to fulfill it with His very life:

“Do not think that I came to abolish the Torah or the Prophets! I did not come to abolish, but to fulfill.”
(Matthew 5:17)

To go right to the point, with the question “are we to love ourselves first and then love our neighbor”?  I think not.  The main reason for my conclusion is that Yeshua did not say there are three greatest commandments; i.e., “love God, love yourself, and love your neighbor”. No, He said there were two greatest commandments – “love God and love your neighbor as yourself”.

Getting to this conclusion was not without much prayer and study, especially because of the strain to filter out all the background noise and the voices “in the world”, and even in Christian psychology and counseling. So many of these voices are crying out to us with human logic, encouraging us to embrace “self-esteem” and “self-care” and to build ourselves up. But God says we are to build ourselves up in our most holy faith (Jude 20). It’s the Word that divides our flesh from our spirit (Hebrews 4:12). This is how we can hear the Lord. The answer for us, as followers of Yeshua, is in the Word, not in the world.

From what I have learned from the Scriptures, mankind does not need to practice ways to love themselves. It’s our default value. It’s clear in this passage:

“After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body….”
(Ephesians 5:29)

To be clear, the Lord made us in His image. This is our identity, but it is not the same as self-love. Neither are we to be self-deprecating. We are to respect and honor everything He has made. We honor Him who lives inside our mortal flesh. He gives us the responsibility to take care of His creation, which does include our own bodies. We are to steward everything that He has given us. He values us, and we are in awe that we are fearfully and wonderfully made by God. In this regard, yes, we have our identity. And in a manner of speaking, we can say, we love what He has made and we take care of it.

This is very different from being “lovers of ourselves”.  God makes this distinction in the Scripture when He says that being lovers of ourselves is not a good thing:

“..There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God - ”
(II Timothy 3:2)

We are admonished throughout the Scripture not to love ourselves but to love others. This is the lesson we are taught, not the lesson about loving ourselves. We are to think of ourselves with “sober judgment”, to understand who we are, not to despise ourselves or to exalt ourselves, but to give freely of all that He has created us to be:

“For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you.”
(Romans 12:3)

 He is teaching us how to do what He has required – in Him:

 “with humility, consider others as more important than yourselves, looking out not only for your own interests but also for the interests of others.”
(Philippians 3:3-4)

“Let your attitude toward one another be governed by your being in union with the Messiah Yeshua.”
(Philippians 2:5)

And let’s not miss that Yeshua is the fulfillment of Torah. He desires us to walk in this way, too. In this way we join our Rabbi in reflecting Torah and the Prophets:

“So in all things, do to others what you would want them to do to you – for this is the Torah and the Prophets.”
(Matthew 7:12)

Finally, and amazingly, let’s really listen to what Yeshua told us about the first and second commandments. He said that the “second commandment is like the first commandment”.

“And the second is like it..”
(Matthew 22:39)

This is the major key to the revelation of what it means to love our neighbor as ourselves. And it answers the question, “Are we to love ourselves”? 

I prayerfully asked Him, “in what way is the second commandment like the first commandment?”. “What do You mean that the second is like it?” He explained this to me with these words “love Me with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and love your neighbor the same way that you love Me, with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength”. When you do this, you will fulfill all the Torah and the Prophets.

I am remembering, too, when Yeshua gave instructions to His disciples. He said, “a new commandment I give to you – to love one another..”. He is, once again, revealing the “Transcendent Torah”, higher than we’ve understood Scripture before. Not only are we to love Him, to love God, but we are also to love others the same way we love Him, with everything we’ve got.

There is only one way we can do this. We must allow Him to love us, to receive His great love for us. It’s not self-love that we need to nurture. It is the love of God inside of us that we must have in order to obey the first and second greatest commandments. In this way, yes, we do love ourselves, as the expression of Messiah inside of us, and only because He first loved us and chose us to be His. He is inside of us. He dwells here. In this way we understand that His life abides inside these mortal bodies, His temple. Because of this miracle, we are empowered to love others as we love ourselves.


Cathy Hargett
Highway to Zion Ministries
http://www.highwaytozion.org

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Sunday, July 13, 2025

“Take My Yoke” Cathy Hargett, Highway To Zion

“TAKE MY YOKE”

Cathy Hargett, Highway To Zion

As I was studying the words of Yeshua in Matthew 11:28-30, the Holy Spirit showed me that I have only fully “heard” part of these verses. I have heard His compassion and His love and His caring in that He desires to give us “rest for our souls”.

But this time I heard more. I heard about the level of devotion that He is requiring of those who follow Him. I learned about the “Transcendent Torah” and what it means to take His yoke upon us.

Like He always does, He transforms us with His Word. It is so amazingly breathtaking to see the intricacies of what He speaks. God decided to humble Himself and to take on the form of a man and to enter history as a Jewish man in the culture of Israel.

Using every Word of Torah, He revealed Himself as Elohim, the God of Israel, the Father, Son, and Ruach ha Kodesh. He lived the Word in perfection, explaining Himself in ways that His chosen ones would understand.

Many times, He spoke in parables and with idioms that they would have known and understood to be Messianic. He was clear about the Truth. He showed them that He is Torah. He is the Living Word. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

He said this –

“Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble of heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

(Matthew 11:28-30)

Yeshua was acknowledged as a rabbi, a rabbi who had authority. He was recognized as a rabbi by His disciples, lawyers, scribes, the common people, and even by the leaders of the Pharisees.

The issue for the Pharisees was, “by whose authority?” was He recognized as a rabbi? Yeshua told them plainly that His authority was not the authority of men.

“My teaching is not My own. It comes from the One who sent Me. Anyone who chooses to do the will of God will find out whether My teaching comes from God or whether I speak on My own.”

(John 7:16)

There was a system of education among the Jewish people. It was the highest priority of the people of Israel to educate their children. Even though there are passages in the Bible that shed an unflattering light on the people who lived in the Galilee as being “unlearned”, the historical evidence reveals that this was an area of conscientious learning and following of Torah, the Word of God.

The youngest children, from age five or so until about age ten went to Beit Sefer, the House of the Book and these little ones, even the girls, were taught Torah. In fact, they were tasked with memorizing the entire Torah.

The next level (the girls didn’t go to this level) was the House of Learning, where from about age ten to about age fourteen, the students memorized what we know today as the prophets and the writings. If a student excelled, they could be eligible to go to the next level, which is the study to become a rabbi.

It is thought that most students made it through the first level. So even the first-level students had memorized all of Torah! After that, there was a filtering-out process. Only the very best students would make it to the level of actually taking on the “yoke of a rabbi”.

When a disciple took on the yoke of a rabbi, it meant much more than sitting in a classroom learning. In order to be eligible to follow the rabbi, the rabbi would have to deem a student capable of learning and following him to the point that they would be exactly like him.

They were expected to think like him, walk like him, speak like him, live like him, act like him, and to imitate him perfectly. This was a highly selective process.

This is the meaning of “take my yoke upon you”. It means “be like me” in all your ways. At some point, those who followed the rabbi could become rabbis themselves.

A person who was given this authority would then be able to teach his own interpretations of the Word, and his disciples would then follow him.

It was into this culture that our Messiah Yeshua, the Son of God, the Son of Man, lived His life on earth. He was a Rabbi like no other. His teaching came directly from God. His students were like no other – and this, my friends, is still true today!

The ones He selected were those that He knew would be able to hear Him and to follow Him, and to take His yoke upon them. These were those who would seek to be just like Him. Do we really understand that Yeshua chose us for Himself and that He believes we are capable of following Him by the power of the Holy Spirit?

What a humbling privilege to be chosen by Him to take on His yoke.

And this is where I find my total amazement today, at this very moment – this is the level of life with Him that He is requiring of me, and of you, if we profess to be His disciples. Yeshua wants us to live like Him, walk like Him, talk like Him, think like Him, love like Him, heal like Him, and to do the things He does.

He is not asking us to follow a rule book or live a legalistic life of ritual obedience. He is requiring much more than that. He is telling us to take on His yoke, which far surpasses rules, regulations, and following the traditions of men. God, in His mercy, saw it was impossible for man to do this.

He came Himself to make a way for us to do even more than this! His burden that is easy and His yoke that is light requires of us this one thing – love Him with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength.

Love your neighbor as yourself. He says that “all the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments” (Matthew 22:40).  

And He, through his sinless life, receives you into Himself to live. You live in Him. You live in His heart. You are alive inside of the “Transcendent Torah”, the perfect One, the sinless One, the Savior of your soul, the Living Word.

Yeshua quoted vast truth from the passage in Jeremiah 6:16 when He gave us the words of Matthew 11:28-30. Compare those Scriptures and you will see. Here’s Jeremiah 6:16:

“This is what the Lord says: Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls..”

(Jeremiah 6:16)

Yeshua revealed so much with these few words. He said that He is the Ancient Way. He is the Way. He is the One of Whom the prophets spoke. He is the Messiah of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.

In the Torah/the Law, the Writings, and the Prophets, He is revealed. He is God. He is the God of Israel. He has fulfilled every requirement to reconcile man back to God. We learn of Him from following the Ancient Way. We see Him as the revelation of the Living Word, the Transcendent Torah. Without Torah, we do not see or comprehend the “real Jesus”.

“..This is what I told you while I was still with you. Everything must be fulfilled that is written about Me in the Law of Moses, the Prophets, and the Psalms.”

(Luke 24:44)

“Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets: I have not come to abolish them, but to fulfill them.”

(Matthew 5:17)

This yoke He is giving us is easy, and this burden is light because He has paid the price to mark you as one who has fulfilled Torah. We are counted as righteous and justified as if we, ourselves, had perfectly kept all of Torah.

Wearing the yoke of this Rabbi means that you are looked upon as having fulfilled all the requirements of Torah because you are marked with the blood of the covenant of Messiah Yeshua.

You have now been accepted, you take on Yeshua, you clothe yourself with Him. You die with Him and you live with Him – your whole life is His. There is nothing more important, more significant, more intimate, more desirable than this one thing, not your family, not your vocation, and not your personal desires.

You leave all these things to follow Him. He is above all and in all. In this way, we find rest for our souls.

Cathy Hargett, Highway to Zion Ministries

http://www.highwaytozion.org


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Monday, June 30, 2025

“ECHAD WITH GOD” By: Cathy Hargett, Highway To Zion


“ECHAD WITH GOD”

By:  Cathy Hargett

After an intense time of preparation for a recent seminar entitled “The Land of Israel and You”, I realized my own spiritual understanding of this subject had been greatly expanded. Trying to describe it reminds me of a balloon that had some air in it, even a goodly amount of air, but all of a sudden the balloon is being inflated way beyond what it looks like its capacity can hold!  That’s really how I felt, as if I would just explode with trying to process what He was pouring into my heart.

The significance of the Land of Israel and God’s covenant with Israel, and as a Gentile being grafted in by the blood covenant of Yeshua, has been a revelation I have carried in my spirit for many years. But the purified essence of this relationship with the God of Israel, with the Land of Israel, boils down to this one thing – “Echad With God”. What is “echad”?  It’s all about Oneness with God. Through His revelation of Israel, we go ever so much deeper in Him.

Think of the words of the Sh’ma – “Sh’ma Yisrael, Adonai Eloheinu, Adonai Echad.” In English, “Hear O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is One.” The word, “echad”, is a Hebrew word for “one”. There is another Hebrew word for “one” and it is called “yachid”. There is a reason that the Lord used “echad” in the Sh’ma and not “yachid”. The difference in the two words is that “yachid” refers to a singular, unique, solitary oneness, and “echad”, while also referring to singular oneness, carries with it the understanding of the idea of unity, as in the phrase "one flesh" referring to a married couple. 

With this “echad-description” of God, we also see His tri-unity – He is One God with the expression of the distinctiveness of Abba, Yeshua, and the Ruach ha Kodesh joined together as One. He is One in the fullness of His divinity. He is past finding out. In Him is the revelation of all things. The revelation of Israel’s place in His plan expands this understanding to the point that we are now able to see that in many ways He is Israel. Loving Israel is loving God.

With every growing revelation about the relevance of the Land of Israel in the life of a follower of Yeshua, there is a growing intimacy with the God of Israel, truly becoming “Echad with God”, married to God. The distilled essence is that God’s desire when He created humankind has always been that we would be One with Him, allowing Him to consume us, spirit, soul, and body. We are His workmanship, created to be like Him. We must be like Him or we cannot be One with Him. We must be made acceptable by the blood of Yeshua, fulfilling Torah.

We also see other “types” of oneness with God and each other revealed in the Land. These types include Yeshua’s physical body, your body, the eternal kingdom, the wife of God, the Bride of the Lamb, His dwelling place, the good fight of faith, Eden restored, God’s portion, the Ephod of the great High Priest, and many other amazing things. Each of these “types” are so very beautiful, intricate, and require deep study and meditation to even get a glimpse of the vastness. In fact, the revelation of Israel, the Land of Israel, reveals the whole story of the Kingdom and its coming restoration. It reveals so much of what it will be like to be in total unity with Him.

There is much more to ponder on this subject of “Echad With God”. I am asking Him to continue to take me deeper into His heart. I so desire to know Him better. Yeshua said that to know Elohim is eternal life. The Kingdom is in your heart and soon will be tangible in the restoration of all things on planet Earth. He will reign out of Zion. We will see Him face to face, and being married to God will become our everlasting reality, “Echad With God”.

Cathy Hargett

          06.29.25 

Highway to Zion Ministries
http://www.highwaytozion.org


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Saturday, November 26, 2022

“When No Becomes Know” – Steve Martin, Love For His People Ministry

 

“When No Becomes Know” – Steve Martin, Love For His People Ministry

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Nov. 26, 2022 Charlotte, North Carolina

Greetings to my family and friends of Love For His People Ministry.

Yes, I know that it was only yesterday when I sent you another message. But when the Lord keeps waking me up at 3:30 am, I read a few chapters of Scripture as is my daily discipline, and then try to shut my eyes for a bit more sleep before the sun comes up again.

As I lay my head back, He put this thought into my spirit, “when no becomes know.” After years of training to hear and know His quiet voice, I turned the lamp back on by my brown chair and commenced writing.

Please read my message below, “When No Becomes Know”, and you too may know what He knows.

‘Tis the season upon us once again. Enter into the joy of the Lord, knowing His perfect plans and purposes for your life are “Yes and amen” in Him.

Ahava and Shalom,



Steve Martin, Founder, Love For His People Ministry
When No Becomes Know 

“Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus, but oddly, when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed on where he was for two more days. After the two days, he said to his disciples, “Let’s go back to Judea.” John 11:5-7, THE MESSAGE  

Have you ever wondered why Jesus stayed two more days in the place where He was at, before he left to go see His good friend Lazarus, who was sick and dying? When He heard the news of his sickness, Yeshua was most likely near the Jordan River, the area of Jericho, which was a good 2 days walk back up to Jerusalem. (See John 10:40.) Did you realize it was actually four days after Lazarus was dead and buried that Yeshua finally got to his town of burial, near Jerusalem?

(My good friend David Peterman and I got to go into the cave where he was buried, on our Love For His People Ministry Ahava Adventures trip in April 2022. Watch my Walk With Me video, Tomb of Lazarus in biblical Bethany.

I have been down that road to and from Jericho several times by car and bus. It is a steep road, traveling down to the lowest part of the earth, the Dead Sea area. Thus, it would have been a major hike up the road, on foot, to Yerushalayim for Jesus and His disciples. Thus the four days later time period. 

“On arrival, Yeshua (Jesus) found that El‘azar (Lazarus) had already been in the tomb for four days. Now Beit-Anyah (Bethany) was about two miles from Yerushalayim (Jerusalem), and many of the Judeans had come to Marta (Martha) and Miryam (Mary) in order to comfort them at the loss of their brother. So when Marta heard that Yeshua was coming, she went out to meet him; but Miryam continued sitting shiv‘ah (7 days of mourning) in the house.” John 11:17-20, Complete Jewish Bible 

Have you ever wondered why sometimes Jesus’ response to you is a “No” when you really want something, and think you need it now? And I can imagine you too have experienced the disappointment then also and wondered as I do at times, “Why, Lord?” 

I believe it was in 2018 when I made another trip to Israel, to be with those the Lord had made connections for me with there, for His purposes and plans. I was alone, and on this ahava journey, I got to thinking that it was going to be my last trip to the Land. I was getting weary of going, not seeing the long-term, panoramic view, or what may be ahead if I kept going. 

Cathy Hargett, Highway To Zion Founder here in Charlotte, North Carolina, was also in the city of Jerusalem at the time, and she had asked me to join her and the other 10-12 with her at the Mount Zion Hotel, overlooking the valley opposite the gravesite of Oskar Schindler by the Old City. (I inserted that because I loved the movie, Schindler’s Listwhich is back in the theater’s Dec. 7, 2022, for its 25th anniversary.) 

When I joined the group, a bit discouraged believing this was my last time going to Israel, I recall telling Cathy that very thought. Most likely she may have thought otherwise. But it was what it was. Or so I thought. 

Possibly the next day, as my memory banks of 68 years now take more time to recollect and find the exact file cabinet folder when the correct date was, I was walking the stone streets of Israel’s capital city alone when I clearly heard the Holy Spirit speak to me. “This is not your last trip here. In fact, you will be coming back two times each year.” 

My response, in total shock, “What? Two times? This is my last time!” 

Has it not happened to you before, when you think something is done and over, buried and gone, when the Lord resurrects it, in His time? Lazarus was dead. It was over for him. Or so the disciples and his sisters so thought. But Yeshua knew. Jesus always knows. 

There may be something in your life today where you have thought, solidly believed in fact, that it is over, done with, and there is no possibility, no hope of resurrection or even being on life support for a few more days, for it to happen. And then. And then God. It is always about God and His perfect plans and purposes. 

As for me, I have returned to Israel at least two times each year after that, except during the planned-demic when no travel in the world was allowed. And each time I have realized more and more that the Lord’s timing is perfect, and His faithfulness will bring those promises and prophetic spoken words to pass, which we have received in the past, and thought were no longer valid nor having any possibility of happening. But God knows. Yes, He knows, and will turn the seemingly “No” into the “Yes” when it is your time, when it is His time for you to see it happen.

Be in faith that He knows when the “No” will become the time when you too know. 

Be encouraged my friend. He is not finished with us yet. 

Ahava and shalom, 

Steve Martin, Love For His People Founder 

P.S. We would like to thank those who have supported Love For His People ministry in the past 12 years and continue to do so. We prayerfully ask you to consider supporting our mission to be Yeshua’s hands and feet to love on the Jewish people we know and love in Israel. Even the smallest gift helps us to be the blessing we are called to be. See our ways of giving online or through checks and banking Zelle, all on our website Love For His People.  

Message #128 in this series – in the year of our Lord 11.26.2022 – “When No Becomes Know”  Saturday, 5:58 am in Charlotte, North Carolina 

Love For His People Ministry. is a charitable, USA humanitarian ministry started in 2010 to share the love of the Father in the nations, especially to and within Israel. If these letters minister to you, please consider sending a charitable gift of $5-$25 today, and maybe each month, to help us bless known families in Israel, whom we consistently help through our humanitarian ministry.  Go here for safe ONLINE GIFT GIVING THROUGH  OUR WEBSITE using major credit cards, Zelle, or PayPal
Come see this “Walk With Me” video that I recorded while in Israel in April 2022, with David Peterman, and our taxi driver Nouri Hawa of Jerusalem.It is the cave where Lazarus was buried, where Yeshua called him to come forth from the grave. The “No way” previously believed by the disciples and his sisters would become the revealing of Yeshua’s knowing that all things are possible.Ahava and Shalom, Steve Martin
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WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO by Steve Martin (published Nov. 14, 2022)

On Nov. 11, 2022, as I awaited the shuttle to the Ben Gurion International Airport in Tel Aviv, Israel, I asked the Lord what the title of my 36th book should be. “Why We Do What We Do – We Live For the Lord” came the response from the Holy Spirit. So, I named it that. 

The morning after I got home on Sunday, Nov. 13, 2022, I opened the November/December 2022 issue of Charisma Magazine which my good wife Laurie had been reading on the kitchen table. I skimmed through the pages and noticed an article by Rod Parsley entitled, “Seek the Father’s Face, Hear His Voice”. I had known of Rod and his ministry, but not a regular listener. On page 57 of his article, the written paragraph header was, “His Voice in My Ear”. In the 4th paragraph, he wrote of the Lord asking Him this question, “Why do you do what you do?” Confirmation!

Thus, I had heard the Lord also. 

This book contains the five months of messages I shared with subscribers to my weekly email, and then posted on our website www.loveforhispeople.com and other social media platforms. For each of us to accomplish the Lord’s will, plans, and purposes for our individual lives we must know what we are to do and do it. We will then understand the “why we do what we do” question, as we walk out His ways. 

Be inspired and encouraged as you read, either as a daily discipline or as a book with examples as to how to walk the Christian faith in your own life. And as you know the “why”, your courage, boldness, and firmer commitment to live for Jesus Christ, Yeshua HaMashiach, will be evident to many. You may not even have to say a word. 

I have also included the six messages I wrote from Jerusalem, between Oct. 24-Nov. 11, 2022 when I was there on my 26th journey to the Land. Since 2010 I have called these journeys “Ahava Adventures”. “Ahava” is love in Hebrew. 

To purchase on Amazon: WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO– Paperback $10.95 Hardback $14.95 E-book $2.95

Steve Martin

STEVE & LAURIE MARTIN - LOVE FOR HIS PEOPLE FOUNDERS My good wife Laurie and I (45 years in October 2022!), through the ministry of Love For His People we founded in 2010, give love and support for our friends in Israel and in other nations with friendship, humanitarian aid, and social media support, along with Steve's messages, and our Ahava Adventures trips to Israel. Steve has also authored and published 35 books. We live in the Charlotte, NC area. We have four adult children, spouses, and eight grandkids.

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