Intimacy
- Now Think On This
by Steve Martin
“My
beloved responded and said to me,
'Arise, my darling, my beautiful one,
And
come along.
'For
behold, the winter is past,
The
rain is over and gone.
'The
flowers have already appeared in the land;
The
time has arrived for pruning the vines,
And
the voice of the turtledove has been heard in our land.
'The
fig tree has ripened its figs,
And
the vines in blossom have given forth their fragrance.
Arise,
my darling, my beautiful one,
And
come along!'"
Song
of Songs 2:10-13 NASU)
As my bride came down the church aisle that beautiful early
evening, I sang these Scriptural words to her that I had written in my song, “Arise,
my darling, my beautiful one, and come along.” Though I had intended to sing
several verses, I choked up on the second one. My heart was just overwhelmed at
her beauty, her movement in that flowing white laced gown, and the presence of
the Lord’s Holy Spirit in that place of matrimony. The time had come for us to
be joined together as man and wife.
What seemed to have been a decade long wait was about to be
fulfilled in that moment, as we were acknowledging the Lord’s plans and
purposes for unity. Out of our desire to share the love in our hearts, He would
also bring forth a family to demonstrate His love on the earth, in preparation
for the eternal love in heaven.
From that day forward, we have grown in our care and provision
for each other, sharing the gifts and spiritual fruit we each have had to give.
In physical, emotional and spiritual intimate moments, we have experienced a
touch of what the Father, Son and Holy Spirit have shared for all eternity. Believing
that through the times of trials and required persistency, our hearts have been
bonded together, the intimacy becoming more real in our lives together.
Being intimate with one other is not an “overnight sensation”
that one can have with another simply out of a physical act. To participate in
the intent of the Father’s love for mankind, there must be that commitment to be
joined together for the long haul; to stand strong when the temptation is to
flee; to keep the promise that was spoken at the altar years before. Intimacy
is not for those who are looking for a quick satisfaction of one’s emotional
lust, but is given to committed hearts who have been and continue to be willing
to sacrifice for each other, time and time again. From that solid promise to
stay through sickness and health, riches or poverty, until death do we part, the
intimate moments are fully experienced, fulfilling the longing in each heart to
be accepted, nourished and kept in committed and submitted love.
In today’s society there is the prevailing belief that there can
be emotional intimacy without having a strong commitment to one another beyond
a sexual act. When the Lord says that sex outside of marriage is wrong, it is
because the Creator knows that a deep soulish tie will occur, bringing hurt and
lasting pain when an improper joining happens. We were not created to share
this intimate act in a non-binding relationship.
The emotional and physical act also carries with it a spiritual
bond that has to be kept within the protected walls of marriage. Thus doing
that which was intended only within the committed relationship of sacred marriage
will produce an emotional scar, keeping us from experiencing real love. It will
also leave a strong imprint that will need to be healed later. Our loving
Father thus has warned over and over again that sexual intimacy is for the
marriage bed only.
Laws are made to protect us, not to keep us from the Lord’s
goodness and favor. Abiding in His laws of love and protection will bring
eternal satisfaction, keeping our hearts pure and emotions strong. Breaking His
loving laws will produce destruction in our spirit, soul and body.
Intimacy between a man and a woman is a beautiful gift from God.
Keeping it that way is a protection for our society and the good of all
mankind.
Now think on this,
Steve Martin
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Now Think On This #169
“Intimacy” by Steve
Martin
Date: In the year of
our Lord 2015 (03.29.15) Sunday at 12:30 pm in Charlotte, NC
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